Normally, when kids tell their parents about their dream careers during childhood, they are applauded. But when the parents realize that their kids are really serious about it and still want to pursue their aspirations as they proceed to the completion of their secondary education, their happiness turns into a nightmare. But a few parents share amazing chemistry with their children and give them the freedom to make their own decisions in life.
However, many youngsters often reach a point where they don’t know whether they should live life on their own terms or follow their parents’ dreams. Confused, they face a dilemma and finally give up on their aspirations. They feel their parents are experienced enough to show them the right and better path. But doing so, they do not realize that later in life, when things are not good, they will blame their parents for not letting them do what they wanted to. So, it is better for the youth to follow their dreams, always.
Advantages of following your dreams
● You know your skills better. So if you follow what you have dreamt of, you will surely achieve it.
● When you follow your own instinct, you give your 100% and ultimately you will achieve success.
● You are focused. Your main concentration is on achieving your goal by putting in all your efforts.
● The dream becomes your passion and drive. You will become more responsible and you will work hard to get what you want in life.
● You will find your dream interesting. So you will work dedicatedly on it and emerge successful in fulfilling it.
● You become determined on account of the zeal and zest for reaching the destination. At the same time, if you are forced to do something, you will never get the expected results.
● You have a clear and coherent mind. You are the best person to understand your dream and so, you will have a clear plan to attain your goal.
● You are well-informed about your desired goal.You have the urge to know more and do better. This knowledge will keep you ahead of all and you will stand self-dependent.
● Dreams bring you more chances which in turn provide more opportunities. These opportunities decide your future.
● You get to challenge the status quo of the society, which is the reason, many times, a person cannot follow his or her dreams.
● You feel joyful about the work and everything associated with it.
● Your mind, skills and understanding grow as you step out of the comfort zone. The challenges you face give you important life lessons.
● You will feel accomplished. You will never have any regrets.
● Ones who follow their dreams are called doers. They are the ones who have the will to change the world.
● You can inspire others too with your achievements. You will set an example for others to follow.
● You become unique and different from others. You have your own self-image.
● Accomplishing your dreams will spark even bigger dreams. The levels of dreams you have achieved give rise to bigger dreams. This is also a great achievement.
● Life feels memorable. The toughest struggles become part of everlasting memories.
Tips to convince your parents
Educate yourself
You must learn everything while considering a specific career or college choice, so that you can know, with as much certainty as you can, that this is the right choice.
Educate your parents
It is necessary to talk to your parents about your dreams, especially when they are not so enthusiastic about them. Tell them everything. This way, they will appreciate your dedication and will also probably want to do some research themselves.
Make a plan of action
You can start with a series of short-term goals that will eventually lead to the fulfilment of your long-term goal. Make a point to progress each day. Write up a plan including the costs, how you will manage the budget, the alternatives if in case the plan does not work. Think about all this and report to your parents. They will be ensured that you are serious about your dream.
Listen to your well-wishers
Our parents have always been our heroes and we have grown up walking on their paths. Your parents’ experiences count. Take their advice as they have more experience of being wrong. You can make some mild alterations based on that.
Be confident, stay positive
Self-confidence and self-motivation are key to transforming dreams into reality. Never get demotivated with shortcomings. Take the risks and follow your heart. If you believe in yourself, your parents will also believe in you and they will shower their blessings upon you.
Ask from experts
To support your decision and gain your parents’ trust, consult an expert in the field you wish to pursue. Get acquainted with the pros and cons. Once you have an expert’s guidance, your parents will definitely give you a chance to experiment with your capabilities.
Accept that you cannot change people
If your parents are still not willing, that’s okay. You tried your best to convince them or lessen their worries, but it didn’t work. That doesn’t mean you should forsake your dreams. You might have to work a little harder for financial stability.
There is nothing wrong in choosing your parents’ dream because they are concerned about you. It is just that you have to think practically. Your future depends on you. Your dreams decide your destiny and shape your personality. So make wise decisions and become the best versions of yourselves. Your parents will be the happiest people on earth when they see you succeed.
